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		<title>By: YHK</title>
		<link>http://www.swintalk.com/random-ramblings/relationship-or-friendship/comment-page-1/#comment-230</link>
		<dc:creator>YHK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 06:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>jealousy is part of a relationship...its inevitable...&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;230&#039;,&#039;YHK&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>jealousy is part of a relationship&#8230;its inevitable&#8230;
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		<title>By: springice</title>
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		<dc:creator>springice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 19:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>when you is in relationship, somehow friends would also stay away from being close with you anymore. they would think that they shouldnt have being &quot;lightbulb&quot; when go out with you. maybe should give some space to be together. 

what if u and best friend has a gf that they both are enermy to each other? what would u and ur best friend do to solve the scenario when going out together? should u and ur best fren go out together and abandon our gf? or go out with gf and slowly ignoring best friend?&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;200&#039;,&#039;springice&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>when you is in relationship, somehow friends would also stay away from being close with you anymore. they would think that they shouldnt have being &#8220;lightbulb&#8221; when go out with you. maybe should give some space to be together. </p>
<p>what if u and best friend has a gf that they both are enermy to each other? what would u and ur best friend do to solve the scenario when going out together? should u and ur best fren go out together and abandon our gf? or go out with gf and slowly ignoring best friend?
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		<title>By: mrmoi88</title>
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		<dc:creator>mrmoi88</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 08:53:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Almost speechless... Everyone sure has their own &quot;almost perfect choice of partner&quot;, but there is only 1 thing that u really need...TRUST!
If u really like a have a bf/gf, just try to date a few times, know each other more (but at a limited LiNE). Then after some time of communicating, if u think ur &#039;future partner&#039; can be trusted, then keep on goin ur &#039;honeymoon&#039;.&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;190&#039;,&#039;mrmoi88&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Almost speechless&#8230; Everyone sure has their own &#8220;almost perfect choice of partner&#8221;, but there is only 1 thing that u really need&#8230;TRUST!<br />
If u really like a have a bf/gf, just try to date a few times, know each other more (but at a limited LiNE). Then after some time of communicating, if u think ur &#8216;future partner&#8217; can be trusted, then keep on goin ur &#8216;honeymoon&#8217;.
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		<title>By: Saad Kamal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Saad Kamal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 14:41:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry to barge in...but I just want to let everyone know that like before a new forum has been created on &quot;Relationship &amp; advice&quot;. So if any of you feel like, you can start up new threads there as well:
http://www.swintalk.com/?page_id=43&amp;forumaction=showforum&amp;forum=19

Or just use the forum in general: 
http://www.swintalk.com/forum/

Its still new, so please encourage yourself and others to start using it =)&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;182&#039;,&#039;Saad Kamal&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry to barge in&#8230;but I just want to let everyone know that like before a new forum has been created on &#8220;Relationship &#038; advice&#8221;. So if any of you feel like, you can start up new threads there as well:<br />
<a href="http://www.swintalk.com/?page_id=43&#038;forumaction=showforum&#038;forum=19" rel="nofollow">http://www.swintalk.com/?page_id=43&#038;forumaction=showforum&#038;forum=19</a></p>
<p>Or just use the forum in general:<br />
<a href="http://www.swintalk.com/forum/" rel="nofollow">http://www.swintalk.com/forum/</a></p>
<p>Its still new, so please encourage yourself and others to start using it =)
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		<title>By: brendan goh</title>
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		<dc:creator>brendan goh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 12:51:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I dated a girl like that once, felt like a dog being dragged around on a tight leash&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;181&#039;,&#039;brendan goh&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I dated a girl like that once, felt like a dog being dragged around on a tight leash
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		<title>By: Serene</title>
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		<dc:creator>Serene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 12:32:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I oni have 1 criteria for my future bf.. that is he has to noe and mix well with my frens, I will oso get to noe and mix well with his frens, that way, whenever I go out with frens, he won&#039;t mind.. Whenever he go out with his, I won&#039;t mind as well.. Can even go out together with our frens, we won&#039;t mind coz we adi noe them, can chat with them etc etc My ex was jealous whenever I go out with my frens *even lady frens* I&#039;m a very active person, I dun wan my bf angry at me for going out with frens especially coz of jealousy o.O So, I set a rule for my future bf adi, which is the above.. Coz I still wanna stay close to my frens eventho I had a bf adi.. ^^ 
Hm.. jealous? Then try to achieve what tat person hav, then no more jealous, can be an encouragement too.. 
But yea, will feel left out when my best fren had a bf adi.. at least can still chat with her in front of her bf, but will feel her bf is left out pulak.. swt.. am happy she got a nice bf lo.. Will still keep in touch with her, chat about stuff ask how is her relationship, if got prob can share too, better than her handle it alone o.O Depends on ur fren&#039;s partner whether can still stay close to frens lo.. 

*Dunno short terms so describe all, so long.. ^^&quot;*&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;180&#039;,&#039;Serene&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I oni have 1 criteria for my future bf.. that is he has to noe and mix well with my frens, I will oso get to noe and mix well with his frens, that way, whenever I go out with frens, he won&#8217;t mind.. Whenever he go out with his, I won&#8217;t mind as well.. Can even go out together with our frens, we won&#8217;t mind coz we adi noe them, can chat with them etc etc My ex was jealous whenever I go out with my frens *even lady frens* I&#8217;m a very active person, I dun wan my bf angry at me for going out with frens especially coz of jealousy o.O So, I set a rule for my future bf adi, which is the above.. Coz I still wanna stay close to my frens eventho I had a bf adi.. ^^<br />
Hm.. jealous? Then try to achieve what tat person hav, then no more jealous, can be an encouragement too..<br />
But yea, will feel left out when my best fren had a bf adi.. at least can still chat with her in front of her bf, but will feel her bf is left out pulak.. swt.. am happy she got a nice bf lo.. Will still keep in touch with her, chat about stuff ask how is her relationship, if got prob can share too, better than her handle it alone o.O Depends on ur fren&#8217;s partner whether can still stay close to frens lo.. </p>
<p>*Dunno short terms so describe all, so long.. ^^&#8221;*
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		<title>By: Chen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 10:54:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dont jealous jealous lah. Dont think too much then you wouldnt jealous already. Simple makes perfect. =)&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;179&#039;,&#039;Chen&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dont jealous jealous lah. Dont think too much then you wouldnt jealous already. Simple makes perfect. =)
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		<title>By: Cruxstone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cruxstone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 07:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;jealousy for ourselves how to control the jealousy inside yourself.. jealousy in everything..not only in relationship… &quot;

I&#039;ve one answer but it became too long so I&#039;m not going to post it here. How can I make a post in this blog?&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;178&#039;,&#039;Cruxstone&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;jealousy for ourselves how to control the jealousy inside yourself.. jealousy in everything..not only in relationship… &#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve one answer but it became too long so I&#8217;m not going to post it here. How can I make a post in this blog?
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		<title>By: Becky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 03:42:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Simple, April! 

Always think of what you have that others don&#039;t. :)

That&#039;s how I control myself from being jealous. Because at the end of the day, everyone is special in their own way. Heee. :D&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;177&#039;,&#039;Becky&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Simple, April! </p>
<p>Always think of what you have that others don&#8217;t. <img src='http://www.swintalk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>That&#8217;s how I control myself from being jealous. Because at the end of the day, everyone is special in their own way. Heee. <img src='http://www.swintalk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />
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		<title>By: April</title>
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		<dc:creator>April</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 03:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahahhaha
no no no..i meant, jealousy for ourselves how to control the jealousy inside yourself.. jealousy in everything..not only in relationship...&lt;div class=&quot;comment-remix-meta&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;#&quot; class=&quot;replyto&quot; onclick=&quot;replyto(&#039;176&#039;,&#039;April&#039;); return false;&quot;&gt;Reply to this comment&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahahhaha<br />
no no no..i meant, jealousy for ourselves how to control the jealousy inside yourself.. jealousy in everything..not only in relationship&#8230;
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